Comments on: Did I mention that marriage is hard? http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/ Welcome to reality. If you lived here, you'd be home now. Wed, 09 Feb 2011 03:40:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: Arwen http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-633 Arwen Tue, 23 Jan 2007 23:11:48 +0000 http://musings.meanderwithme.com/2007/01/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-633 Which is to say: the fighting gets better but the marriage doesn't stop needing attention. Which is to say: the fighting gets better but the marriage doesn’t stop needing attention.

]]> By: Arwen http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-632 Arwen Tue, 23 Jan 2007 23:10:55 +0000 http://musings.meanderwithme.com/2007/01/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-632 I've really found that as the years have gone by my husband and I ironed out the communication issues that we fought about in the first year, and we rarely *fight* anymore: now, our challenge is to work on actually being together and enjoying one another rather than letting life just sweep us up in its constant demanding shuffle. I’ve really found that as the years have gone by my husband and I ironed out the communication issues that we fought about in the first year, and we rarely *fight* anymore: now, our challenge is to work on actually being together and enjoying one another rather than letting life just sweep us up in its constant demanding shuffle.

]]> By: rachel http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-631 rachel Tue, 23 Jan 2007 00:35:57 +0000 http://musings.meanderwithme.com/2007/01/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-631 Something we do, which is along the same lines I think, is reminisce about fun things we did when we were dating, or first married, or just... um... younger. I suppose there's the potential, if things have really changed, for that to be depressing, but it always cheers me up. However much I feel like I've lost sight of him, the memories put him back in focus -- he's that same person, underneath, even though we've both accumulated years and baggage. It's like hosing off some of the mud, somehow. Something we do, which is along the same lines I think, is reminisce about fun things we did when we were dating, or first married, or just… um… younger. I suppose there’s the potential, if things have really changed, for that to be depressing, but it always cheers me up. However much I feel like I’ve lost sight of him, the memories put him back in focus — he’s that same person, underneath, even though we’ve both accumulated years and baggage. It’s like hosing off some of the mud, somehow.

]]> By: More Fondness & Affection at it is what it is http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-630 More Fondness & Affection at it is what it is Fri, 19 Jan 2007 23:11:07 +0000 http://musings.meanderwithme.com/2007/01/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-630 [...] Wondering what this is? Read this post. Thought: I can easily speak of the good times in our marriage. Task: Pick one good time and write a sentence about it. [...] [...] Wondering what this is? Read this post. Thought: I can easily speak of the good times in our marriage. Task: Pick one good time and write a sentence about it. [...]

]]> By: Allison http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-629 Allison Thu, 18 Jan 2007 19:24:33 +0000 http://musings.meanderwithme.com/2007/01/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-629 <i>...one part of his anatomy that does appeal to you.</i> Hmmmm. Hmmmmmmm. Oh, yeah, baby. I want to lick your ... elbow. …one part of his anatomy that does appeal to you.

Hmmmm.
Hmmmmmmm.

Oh, yeah, baby.

I want to lick your … elbow.

]]> By: Joy http://meanderwithme.com/2007/01/18/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-628 Joy Thu, 18 Jan 2007 19:19:01 +0000 http://musings.meanderwithme.com/2007/01/did-i-mention-marriage-is-hard/#comment-628 For example, if you’re not feeling overly attracted to your spouse these days, focus on one area of his or her anatomy that does appeal to you. mwhahahahahahahahaha (okay, back to your scheduled seriousness on the blog. And fwiw, i'm very glad you're doing this.) For example, if you’re not feeling overly attracted to your spouse these days, focus on one area of his or her anatomy that does appeal to you.

mwhahahahahahahahaha

(okay, back to your scheduled seriousness on the blog. And fwiw, i’m very glad you’re doing this.)

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